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Bullying, name-calling, and put-downs remain pervasive challenges in schools across the country—whether in person or online. As we move through 2025, shifting social dynamics, digital connectivity, and evolving school policies demand fresh understanding and strategies. This article offers parents current insights, best practices, and actionable steps to support children who face verbal or relational aggression at school or online.

Understanding the Scope in 2025

Prevalence and Patterns

Verbal and relational bullying—name-calling, insults, rumors, exclusion—are among the most common forms reported by students. According to the Anti-Bullying Alliance, about 40% of young people experienced bullying within the past year, with name-calling being the most frequent form (around 26%). In U.S. schools, data from the National Center for Education Statistics shows that in 2021–22, roughly 19 percent of students ages 12–18 reported being bullied at school.

The digital realm has only expanded the reach. As of 2025, about 26.5% of American adolescents report experiencing cyberbullying within the prior 30 days. Lifetime online harassment increases that share further: BroadbandSearch notes that lifetime cyberbullying victimization in the U.S. has risen to 58.2%.

Equally concerning, research linking bullying to mental health outcomes continues to grow. A large-scale study of over 95,000 students found that even mild bullying correlates with significantly elevated risk of anxiety, depression, poor sleep, PTSD symptoms, and behavioral issues—and the risk multiplies with severity.

Who Is At Risk—and Why It Matters

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Understanding Standardized Testing: What’s Changing in 2025 and How to Help Your Child Prepare

Standardized testing has long shaped how schools, colleges, and parents measure student achievement. Yet in 2025, testing looks very different from even a few years ago. With the shift to digital exams, evolving admission policies, and new adaptive scoring systems, families are navigating unfamiliar territory.

This guide explains what’s changing, why it matters, and how you can help your child prepare for success.

1. The Big Picture: How Standardized Testing Is Evolving Digital delivery becomes the default

The SAT is now fully digital worldwide, following the U.S. rollout in 2024. Students take the exam on laptops or tablets using secure testing software. The test’s adaptive design adjusts question difficulty based on performance, offering a faster and more individualized experience.
→ College Board reports that the digital SAT takes about two hours—nearly an hour shorter than the paper version.

The ACT is also moving toward digital testing, offering computer-based options in select states and planning full adoption by 2026. These adaptive exams aim to make assessments more precise and accessible.

Shorter, more focused tests

Students will notice leaner assessments across grade levels. The new SAT’s reading and writing sections are combined, with shorter passages and fewer questions. Similarly, the ACT is piloting reduced-length versions for school-day testing.

State K–12 tests are following suit. Many districts are trimming redundant assessments or integrating them into online

How to Advocate for Your Child in Public School Without Overstepping

Navigating public school systems can feel like walking a tightrope: you want to support and protect your child, but you also don’t want to alienate educators or create adversarial relationships. Advocating for your child in public school requires a balance of assertiveness, respect, and strategy. Below are evidence-grounded, up-to-date approaches (2025) to help you navigate this terrain effectively.

1. Start from curiosity, not accusation

Before raising concerns, gather facts. Review your child’s recent assignments, grades, reports, behavior logs, and any communications from teachers. Ask open questions:

• “What strengths have you seen in my child this term?”

• “Where do you think they struggle most, and how do you approach that challenge?”

• “How do you track progress, and how can I help support you at home?”

Framing feedback as a request for insight encourages collaboration rather than defensiveness. Longtime parent advocates often emphasize: you’ll get farther when you’re seeking to solve problems together rather than pushing blame.

2. Know the legal and policy framework

Understanding your rights and the school’s responsibilities gives you better footing. Some key frameworks:

• FERPA (in the U.S.) protects your right to access your child’s educational records.

• IDEA / 504 plans obligate schools (in applicable districts) to

Introduction: The Reality of Learning Differences

Learning differences and disabilities are more common than many people realize.

• According to the National Center for Education Statistics, about 14% of all public school students in the United States receive special education services.
• This means that in a typical classroom of 30 students, at least four will likely have some form of learning difference.

Facing Reality

When parents discover their child has a learning difference or disability, it can be an emotional rollercoaster.

• Initial reactions often include shock, denial, and even self-pity.
• It's natural to feel overwhelmed, but it's crucial not to dwell on these emotions.
• Your child needs you now more than ever, and taking prompt action is key to ensuring they receive the support they need to thrive.

I know this firsthand, as my eldest adopted son was thirteen years old when he came to live with us.

• He read at a Grade 2 level.
• We didn't panic. We acknowledged his issue and took him to a professional who recommended a special needs school.
• After 4 semesters of primarily one-on-one instruction, my son could read at his grade level.
• It's a scary, worrying experience, but with all the excellent resources available, a favorable outcome is entirely possible.

Understanding Learning Disabilities

Learning disabilities are neurologically based processing problems that can interfere with learning basic skills, such as reading, writing, or math. They can impede higher-level skills like

Understanding ADHD in Children: Signs, Diagnosis, and Support Strategies

Disclaimer: I have researched answers to these questions that link to or refer back to authoritative sources. However, I am not a healthcare professional. So, always consult a healthcare professional with your specific concerns and questions.

What is ADHD?

Attention Deficit Disorder is a common disorder that afflicts both children and adults.

• I have taught children who have been diagnosed with ADHD.
• I have also managed adult employees who had ADHD.
• So, here are the questions I would ask if I thought my child might have Attention Deficit Disorder.

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How do you define Attention Deficit Disorder?

Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is a neurodevelopmental disorder characterized by persistent patterns of , , and that interfere with daily functioning and development.

According to the American Psychiatric Association's , there are three main subtypes of ADHD:

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In this presentation, symptoms of inattention are looked for, such as difficulty paying attention, being easily distracted, and frequently making careless mistakes in their schoolwork or other activities.

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In this presentation, children will display symptoms of hyperactivity and impulsivity, such as fidgeting, excessive talking, difficulty waiting for their turn, and interrupting others.

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